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Children's mental health week - let's try kindness

5 February 2024
Lisa Feldman Barrett, professor of psychology at Northeastern University, Boston author of  ‘Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain’ says this (see Guardian March 1st 2022 ‘The big idea: is it time to stop talking about ‘nature versus nurture ?’): "Few scientists today would say that 100% of your attributes are inborn or are learned; […]

What happens when Hope meets Optimism in schools?

29 January 2024
I’ve often been asked to work with a child in school when the adults around them have tried everything they can think of without success and everyone feels stuck. It might seem like I’m walking into a hopeless situation, skilled professionals using what’s available; rewards and punishments and kindness and understanding. And still the child refuses or fights, isn’t coming into school or doesn’t stay in class when they’re there. 

Ring the bells that still can ring. Forget your perfect offering...(Leonard Cohen)

29 January 2024
Sometimes children can seem so mysterious, separate, impossible to know, even harder to help. Even to ourselves as children. As adults working with children, whatever our role, we do our best to be present and support them, at the same time as granting them the freedom to discover themselves in their world, without running into danger.

School students can no longer be suspended for ‘wilful defiance’!

29 January 2024
What a headline! Children and young people can be wilfully defiant but that doesn’t mean they’ll be excluded from school as a consequence. 

Ring the bells that still can ring. Forget your perfect offering. There’s a crack, a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in. (Leonard Cohen)

23 December 2022
Sometimes children can seem so mysterious, separate, impossible to know, even harder to help. Even to ourselves as children.  As adults working with children, whatever our role, we do our best to be present and support them, at the same time as granting them the freedom to discover themselves in their world, without running into […]

What happens when Hope meets Optimism in schools?

12 December 2022
I’ve often been asked to work with a child in school when the adults around them have tried everything they can think of without success and everyone feels stuck. It might seem like I’m walking into a hopeless situation, skilled professionals using what’s available; rewards and punishments and kindness and understanding. And still the child […]

Children's mental wellbeing in a time of stress

9 November 2022
What can we do to prevent molehills turning into mountains when overwhelmed and depleted specialist mental health services are unable to act rapidly enough to keep children safe and well?  Facing a crisis in specialist mental health provision, concerned professionals inside and outside medicine are doing their creative best to offer something concrete to children […]

The Optimistic Child - Part 4

2 November 2022
Last week (Dennis Campbell, Health Policy Editor Oct 25 2022) the Guardian reported on a research study into “social prescribing” as an approach to improved mental wellbeing. The trial, run by University College London and funded by the Prudence Trust, a charity which supports young people’s mental health services, will seek engage 600 young people […]

The optimistic child in the optimistic school - Part 3

21 October 2022
Schools are coming under ever increasing pressure to support and include children who are struggling with many issues, pre-existing and those coming out of the Covid experience and it's associated losses and stresses. This is  creating both old and new problems for the staff trying their best to teach them at the same time as […]

The optimistic child - Part 2

12 October 2022
  “There’s only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve; the fear of failure” Paulo Coelho de Souza What protects a child from fear of failure? It’s being able to see the way ahead with realistic optimism, building the sense of security that comes from meeting challenges on the way and overcoming them, […]

The optimistic child - making a start

3 October 2022
It’s the start of another school day. A ten year-old boy gets to the school door but on this day he just can’t go in, it’s simply too much. He does everything he can to stop it happening, hitting himself on the wall, refusing help, clearly in distress, not running away or hurting anyone else. […]

Panorama - Mental health: Young lives in crisis

21 September 2022
I watched the Panorama programme ‘Mental health: Young lives in crisis’ last night. It struck me on one hand as a message of hope over experience, on the other as a story of people reaching out in desperation as they struggle to stay afloat, treading water with a mass of others in the same condition. […]

Notes from the chalkface; relationships and behaviour

26 June 2022
From Ben Davis, Headteacher at St Ambrose Barlow Catholic High School, Swinton ( Twitter @bendavis ) Normally when I tweet (which is not often) I get a handful of likes and a couple of comments so I was entirely unprepared for the reaction to my short thread on Sunday, June 19th, 2022 in which I […]

Talking about scrapping exclusion from schools

9 October 2021
My article last week ‘It’s time to scrap exclusion from schools attracted a few replies on Twitter, among them: * This is interesting. Reasoned sensible argument about exclusions. Thank you Geoff.The need for change. * And prison of course. Let us not safeguard children. * I’d be all for a system that doesn’t include exclusion. […]

It's time to scrap school exclusion.

2 October 2021
It’s time to scrap school exclusion. Why? Because Plan A isn’t working.   A story - Plan B. A young man on the edge of adulthood, experiencing such severe panic attacks it’s causing him to disengage and putting his educational future at risk. As part of a school team developing Solutions Focused Coaching as a […]

If not now, when? It's our children's lives were talking about.

17 July 2021
The Problem  Talk from Twitter this week; A July 2020 report from the then new Children’s Commissioner (England) ‘Vulnerable teenagers; where did it go wrong?’  Shining a light on the extent and impact of child vulnerability in England, focusing in particular on children with undiagnosed mental health issues, those excluded from mainstream education and children […]

Solutions Focused Coaching in Schools - the way forward

8 July 2021
Case note 1: “Some members of my team who are in school now starting to deliver Solutions Focused Coaching sessions shocked the socks off the school and surprised the young people - two very, very good sessions with two disillusioned young people. It was an incredibly uplifting professional experience to break through that original cynicism, […]

The 5% and talking about strengths

7 July 2021
Last May, as the pandemic was in full flood, this arrived in my email inbox; “Hi Geoff, I have been working from home today and I remembered the job that you gave me which was to notice when things are going well. Throughout the day I have noticed quite a few things going well, one […]
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